Not sure how you thought “get over your shit and stop dividing people” was a respectful way to address a woman. Also 150 years is incorrect, my grandfather tells me stories all the time about the conditions of blacks from 70 years ago. I worked with him in the same business for almost a decade. He’s 91 and can tell me how bad things were having grown up here. You have been misled by a google search… figure that. In this context, “ghetto” refers to the black community that Lotta and you were talking about. Have you been comprehending or just reacting?