If you can't exit unilaterally, it's not self-custody. Self-custody means

there is no "best" way to use bitcoin the best tool for a given situation

If you're driving while intoxicated but technically your car is fully self

Whenever your health, wealth, or autonomy are on the line, that’s the time #Bitcoin

If you are a user who has been on #nostr for 2 or 3 years, you will be remembered