> military equipment being hidden in unmarked civilian buildings
This is grey area stuff, and nowhere near the near the level of what you've been proposing. I do not hold Ukraine to the standard of squeaky cleanness.
I also suspect (and hope) they evacuate at least the immediate vicinity.
As for killing wounded soldiers. Obviously a war crime if it happens as you're stating, but video footage is generally not enough context. But it wouldn't tip the scale for me in favor of Russia.