I am. I think that when I was in teens and until mid 20s I did consider that somewhere in future I might have a child. Maybe. But by 27 I just imagined having to care for an unreasonable egg day in, day out and then have them being annoying AF, I realised I am too selfish for that. Mind, we do foster pre teen girls here and there. Older are often trouble and younger need more intense support which I can not always provide. The 9-12 are perfect as they can hike with us, are ok with dogs and are easiest to communicate with.