And that’s great! I’m just speaking for myself. I’m forty soon and for as long as I can remember I just want some dedicated time for myself to read only on my back or build a Lego castle. I love parties don’t get me wrong but I don’t want to go somewhere with my friend where the reason they are going all in on some party activities is to celebrate me. When I’m dead then yes. Go buck wild. Burn a town down in my honor.